What Am I Filling?

The more important question is what are you filling? What are you filling to suppress the feelings? I was doing a video on a new skin product line which is all natural by the way and it works, and, in my video, I touched on fillers. It made me go down the rabbit hole. This concept exactly. Why are we filling when all we need to be doing is communicating our feelings? Why do injections fill our need to look better? What are the long-term side effects of these fillers? I sure do know there wasn’t fillers when I was a kid. Also, I think a self-confidence survey needs to be done before the work is fulfilled. What do you think these self-confidence surveys would read?

Why are people so worried about how others look at us? Are they getting it from their significant other? Or are they so much in their head that when they look in the mirror, all they see is ugly? Here is a little something I read the other day. Our thoughts which are never ending for some of us take shape as neurons. One step further. The lack of confidence neurons is altering your perception of yourself. They will stay the same until you change the neuron activity. No one else. If you have someone telling you to “fill” to look better, you need to really dive in and wonder what kind of perception they are looking at? I know this blog may not be liked by some which is ok. If these cosmetic changes have changed your thoughts on yourself to positive, great. But my question to you is, why did you need them?

But Brooke, you had a surgery that filled something. Yes, I did. I had breast augmentation surgery. It wasn’t really my confidence; it was more like wanting to look more feminine. I wanted my clothes to fit better. I wanted to feel more like a woman. Do I show them off? Absolutely not. My hair stylist only found out about them a few months ago and I have had them for 13 years now. So, if you are filling your face and it’s not a confidence issue, go for it. Is it making you more feminine looking? Do bigger lips, cheeks, less wrinkles, lifts, make you less masculine? I am just curious over here. I may be calling the kettle black while I write this, maybe not. Your choice on that.

Fillers are feelings. What are you feeling and what are you filling to feel the feelings? If you are feeling empty inside, fill it with mental health help. Maybe you need to shed a partnership. You need to find someone who loves you for who you are. If you are filling to have people look at your face rather than your whole body, start exercising, eat healthier, positive affirmations. Self-love my friends. Then inner feelings make our outer self. What are you feeding to fill up the self-love glass. Is it half full or half empty? It’s all in how you look at it. Your choice in the end or maybe you just need to be looking at the glass differently to make a new beginning. It is never too late.