Stay True to Yourself

I have created a couple of experiences in not staying true to myself, and this blog is one of them. I have to abide by my blog’s title. Honesty. I haven’t been honest with myself lately because I started caring about what people were thinking of my writing. Guess what? That stops NOW! Why did I have a hiccup? I had a situation in which individuals were perceiving my blog as a negative vibe towards them. This writing is me, it is not you. I created this adventure to hold true to myself and create hope for others. How you perceive this writing is yours to own. Not mine. In order for me to help others and myself, I have to stay true to my heart, to my purpose, and to my goal of serving others. If readers don’t like the new transformation, the new adventure, that is on you. I cannot take responsibility for your actions or your thoughts. I never intend to hurt anyone with my writing because as I dig through my past, I am forming a new way of positive outcomes. A new way of thinking, a new approach. What a gift you are giving me to share. The only approach I surrender myself to these days, is positivity. If negative energy is what you get out of these words, that is your perception, your energy, your desire. How people interpret writing varies with each transaction. You can tell or write a story and everyone that is listening or reading sheds a different light than you. Which light do you want to shine? I cannot control your perception, your outlook on life, I can only control mine and the positive intended use.

I have friends and family who have subscribed to my blog, and I have others who have not. If you feel this blog is detrimental to your mind, leave it. I am here to inspire individuality, I am here to be an inspiration, I am here for you. Out of sight, out of mind. Practice it, if you need to. You are the only one holding yourself back. If this is the better fit for you, then take it. My writing is not intended to stress, it is intended for healing. If I am referencing a family member, a friend, a peer, a patient, just know you are helping readers as well. Turn it into a positive thinking process. If you keep holding on to negative past experiences that involve me, it’s time to create new positive ones starting now, starting with your thoughts. That goes for anyone reading this right now, this second, this moment in time. I will keep using past experiences with my work. It is the only way forward. Have I made mistakes in my past experiences? Absolutely!!!! No doubt about it. I can’t fix them, I can only write about them and gain a different insight on why they were created. My only hope is you can gain the same positive insight and perspective I am portraying. That is totally up to you. Your life, your choice. Nothing to Fear, but Fear itself? Overcome your fears, own them and if you can obtain less fear, more peace will be found.

I was golfing yesterday and a storm came upon us. It was dark, there was lightening, thunder, wind, and rain. In the past, I would have been so scared and feared the worst. What did I do? I started laughing and embraced nature’s force. I survived, will you?

Published by forsythe14

Just an RN telling the honest truth.

10 thoughts on “Stay True to Yourself

  1. If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say it at all!

    But, there are ways around that advice. Freedom of speech baby!
    Although I don’t encourage mean words, I do however accept truth and opinions. I like that facts give the same information. But opinions change, based on everyone else’s experiences. Reading your posts I haven’t found anything that has offended me. Or anything I would think would be offensive to someone else. But I don’t think like everyone else. I haven’t witnessed your interactions, so I can’t say much about it. If you started calling people names- then I would shake my fist at you! Just kidding, but wise words to remember. You don’t write for anyone else. You write for you. You are the only person you have to impress. You may invite others into the audience, but they are more than welcome to leave at any time. Or they can sit quietly until they find something they like.

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