What Would It Take?

Heard this the other day. What would it take? What would it take for you to change relationships which are no longer working? What would it take to change jobs because you hate the one you are in? What would it take to be happier? Doubt is normal. You get a good idea in your head, or you want to change, but what comes next…. doubt. Doubt is a learned response to the thoughts in your head. You have been doubting yourself for so long because it is just easier to keep going the way you are going. Doubt should lead to courage. That is what we should have learned because we would crave change. We have been held back. Take that fence down.

No one likes to change, because it’s uncomfortable. When you are uncomfortable, you need to start embracing it because deep down inside, change is what needs to happen. You need to overcome the feelings and trust your intuition. I know it’s hard. Change is what makes you grow. If you want things to be different, you have to become more positive. You have to stop fighting and deflecting the ideas that YOU come up with. The universe is telling you to take the leap in so many ways. However, you are comfortable. If you don’t want to grow mindfully, stay there. Life will not get any better for you. So, what would it take?

This is my 100th post by the way! Congrats to me and you if you are reading these. I hope I have helped you along the way these past few years. I didn’t know I would like writing so much, but the reason I write these is because I need to read the words, I am typing to remind myself I do have what it takes. It is all instilled in us. I don’t know if this is my passion or not, but it is an outlet. I want to be the change for you and to let you know your mental health is so important. This month is Mental Health Month. What are you doing to help yourself? I read the other day, you cannot change physically, if you can’t change mentally. Read that again.

So, cheers to you if you have started prioritizing yourself! If not, seek people who make you jealous due to their successes. These are the people you need to guide you. I am guilty of women who have accomplished more than me. There, I said it! So, what do I have to do? Change my habits. Change my thinking. Become friends with people who bring light to the room. They want to be the change, I do too. I could always be doing better. Every day I should be doing better, choosing better. Each day you wake up, be grateful for what you can create. You are creating your day the moment you wake up. Don’t let people change your day or your week, or your years ahead. You are in the driver’s seat, where is your road taking you?